Fix UPER encoding of CurvatureCalculationMode; verified on hardware

CurvatureCalculationMode is the one extensible ENUMERATED in CAM:
  ENUMERATED {yawRateUsed(0), yawRateNotUsed(1), unavailable(2), ...}
UPER encodes an extensible ENUMERATED as an extension bit followed by the root
index - 1 + 2 = 3 bits. All three of our encoders wrote only the 2-bit index,
shifting yawRate and the entire low-frequency container one bit early for any
standards-compliant receiver.

It went unnoticed because every end of this project shared the mistake: the
Kotlin codec was ported bit-for-bit from cam.c, so phone and ESP32 agreed
perfectly with each other and with nothing else. Confirmed against the ETSI
ASN.1 in the C-ITS-Parser checkout, where rasn marks this type - and only this
type - #[non_exhaustive].

Fixed in all three copies of the encoder (app CamUperCodec.kt,
obu-firmware/main/cam.c, obu-cam-transmistter/main/cam.c) plus the decoder,
which now rejects rather than misreads a set extension bit. Frame size is
unchanged at 43 bytes. Transmitter reflashed and the phone decodes its CAMs.

Also in this change:

- serial_link: skip send_frame entirely when no USB host is attached, and raise
  the tx mutex timeout above the worst-case hold. With the phone unplugged every
  write blocked its full timeout while holding the lock, so forwarded CAM_RX
  traffic starved the 1 Hz heartbeat - observed as "tx mutex timeout, dropping
  frame" on the console, and it would have tripped the phone's link watchdog.
  Verified gone on hardware.
- Log decoded and failed CAMs in CamUseCaseRepository. "The app shows nothing"
  had two indistinguishable causes; a silent `?: return` made this bug much
  harder to find than it needed to be.
- Remove the ESP32 send-only/send-and-receive toggle. Reception can't be
  disabled in firmware (raw TX only works while promiscuous), so it was an
  app-side filter pretending to be a radio control.
- V2X monitor follows the serial link state on the ESP32 path instead of MQTT,
  which is permanently disconnected there; CAM intake is gated on the link being
  up, and engine state is cleared when it drops.
- About screen: 0.5.0, Phase 03.
- Track obu-cam-transmistter, the bench CAM transmitter. Its cam.c is compiled
  (unlike obu-firmware's reference copy) and must stay bit-identical to the other
  two - this commit is what that coupling costs when it's broken.
- Document the two-toolchain split: this project builds on IDF 5.5.4, obu-firmware
  on the pinned 6.1. Exporting both in one shell fails confusingly.

obu-cam-transmistter/main/tx_custom.h

@@ -0,0 +1,15 @@
+// Copied from opentrafficmap/its-g5-receiver-firmware_txenabled, main/tx_custom.h.
+// See tx_custom.c for what this does and why we pulled it in.
+#pragma once
+
+#include "esp_wifi.h"
+
+#ifdef __cplusplus
+extern "C" {
+#endif
+
+esp_err_t esp_wifi_80211_tx_custom(wifi_interface_t ifx, const void *buffer, int32_t len, bool en_sys_seq, wifi_tx_rate_config_t *tx_rate_config, wifi_band_t band, wifi_bandwidth_t bw);
+
+#ifdef __cplusplus
+}
+#endif